I observed and learnt with rapt attention as Winnie Ene Louisa brought light to us during the first session of Love Capsule Rhapsody 8 weeks series on undressing sex at Love Capsule Rhapsody International. Truly it was an awesome session.
I paused momentarily to take a cup of water, only to return to see a question from one of the participants in the session. The question was directed to the speaker and it reads;
“BASICALLY MA, ARE YOU SAYING THERE SHOULD NOT BE SEX BETWEEN A BOYFRIEND AND HIS GIRLFRIEND EVEN WHEN THERE IS A DEEP RELATIONSHIP AMONG THEM?”
Winnie did justice to the question and I guess the curiosity of the person who asked the question quickly deflated like a punctured tire.
It sounds like a regular question but it is on the lips of many young people and giving a yes or no response might not be sufficient. While I looked at the question again the tiny voice within me spoke to my heart saying: “Although you might be feeling cold but do not be deceived, AVOID FIRE”
At first I couldn’t understand why I was hearing that but as I began to meditate on it, I understood why.
The journey of a thousand miles always begins with one careful or casual step. Is there a fire that warms the house in the winter? Yes! But that same fire can ravish mansions. Being deeply in love as singles is not an excuse for stupidity.
Can two unmarried love birds take fire into their bosom and not burn? Sex is fire, it burns!
Avoid getting to that point where your bodily urge begins to fight with your reasoning.
Identify that point where there is a frequent urge to lose control in his or her presence and never get there. Don’t tempt your elastic emotional limit else it would break.
I know the world system says SEX SELLS and everyone is doing it. In fact why should someone else tell you how to live your life?
Well the sex that sells stinks and there has to be a remnant that will refuse to join the bandwagon.
CAN YOUR RELATIONSHIP BE AMONG THE REMNANTS?
Though we may be few but we are surrounded by many who have crossed this river before. Adam knew his wife, Abraham knew his wife, Jacob knew his wife, Moses knew his wife. Please now that is your turn don’t let it read “and Tunde knew his girlfriend”
The pleasure that sex offers is not the end itself, you must not let it control you. The bread of sex can be eaten in a moment but its effect can tarry for a life time.
Dear singles, we are on a sexual fast but the aroma of sex around us can be so enticing and tantalizing, it smells so sweet and appealing, It shows no harm and certainly no death. It wraps itself in a bliss of curiosity and a longing to explore ancient wonders. But in it, is a lurking danger and a capacity to reduce a giant to an ant. History abounds with so much examples. Amnon, Shechem, Reuben, are all victims of it’s lurking danger.
We are a generation of people who won’t bow to Baal and our heart will not subscribe to the the trend of pre and extra marital sex. Even if you had made a mistake in the past or still running without rules, you can start from where you are and retrace your step back to Calvary. You made a mistake doesn’t mean you are a MISTAKE.
Together now we can raise our voice and strengthen our vow by placing our hands on our chest and screaming out; “Dear Lord, I won’t conform to the pressure of this world. while I’m single I won’t be stupid and when I get married, I shall not be miserable. When ever pressure try to grind my value, please Lord, lead me to the rock that’s higher than I”
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Love capsule; you do not swallow what can not heal you.